Happy Happy 2 month old to Miracle baby Ahmad Sa’ad 💕
You showed us hope.
You showed us how to be strong.
You showed us how important family is.
You showed us what is healthy from another perspective.
You are brought into this world for a reason !!
Whatever it is, I only wish the best for you ….
No amount of words can describe the love I have for you.
I many many many many many Love You Champion ❤
PS : Late post
” 7 things to Remember When You Feel Broken, Left Out, & Abandoned”
…… “If you take the time to learn to understand others and yourself better; you will realise that all of us actually want the same thing” – You are Loved by Mizi Wahid.
I’ve had always been in denial… OR still am….
I was rather surprised………..
I imagine this book will be a difficult read especially for those who currently have self-doubt or felt unloved. However, it is a beautiful read that emphasize heavily on others, and building trust beyond your control.
For some chapters, I teared, realising how others are are braving through their pain and yet show kindness for those who need the extra affirmation. Not that pain should be measured, sometimes I am engrossed in my own hollow of grief that I fail to realise, there are others as well.
I love how this book ties in to islamic teachings as well without it being in your face. I love this book as it is a reminder to look into myself deeply to unpacked my trauma that I may have mistook and love the flaws in myself and others as well.
It made me reflect on life lessons and be thankful, and appreciate myself more ❤
It is a beautiful book. I hope you find the time to read this one day.
PS : Thanks for such a lovely gift.
Heyy guysss! First and foremost, wish everyone a Very Happy New Year !!! Let’s start the year with a very good note!
Its been ages since I wrote something.. Writer’s Block! I thought why not share something really nice I came across to start off! Maybe something may spark from this for me to write more! Inshallah ❤
A group of students were asked to make a list that they thought were the current Seven Wonders of the World. Though there was some disagreement, the following got the most votes:
Egypt’s Great Pyramids
Taj Mahal
Hoover Dam
Panama Canal
Empire State Building
St. Peter’s Basilica
China’s Great Wall
While gathering the votes, the teacher noted that one quiet student hadn’t turned in her paper yet. So she asked the girl if she was having trouble with her list. The girl replied, “Yes, a little. I couldn’t quite make up my mind because there were so many.
“The teacher said, “Well, tell us what you have, and maybe we can help.”
The girl hesitated, then read, “I think the Seven Wonders of the World are:
“to touch
to taste
to see
to hear.
She hesitated a little, and then added,
to feel
to laugh
and
to love
The room was so full of silence you could have heard a pin drop. Those things we overlook as simple and “ordinary” are truly wondrous.A gentle reminder that the most precious things in life cannot be bought nor are they made with man’s hands.
Blessings given to us are countless.
But overall I’d say it’s really hard to spot a “hurt” INFJ. They never show it. They tend to have a different personality on the surface which makes it harder. They are too complicated to be figured out. Even if they’re hurt, they will keep letting themselves get hurt unless they can no longer take it. That’s when “enough is enough” mentality hits in. But like I said, since INFJs are hard to figure out, you won’t really know if an INFJ will just kick you out of their life or maintain a distant relationship or try to fix it.
For me, if that person really matters to me, I will let my pain be known to them. I often cry. If they don’t, then all hell break loose. They will never see the same me. In the worst case scenario, I will just cut them off. But if they reach out for help or something, I can’t really say no, so I just maintain a distant relationship.
Once realization hits, actions are taken. But it really depends on where an INFJ holds that person in their life.
Initially it made me wonder, why rajini-fied?? Isn’t it a-bit too over exaggerated? And then there came the GIFs, the memes and IG. My IG was flooded with them! Every single story had “rajini-fied” … Okay maybe I am exaggerating but majority of his fans are in my IG! So DUhhhhhhh
In fact, after watching the trailer, I very much wanted to watch the movie myself. Well like all the 80s-90s kids, me too grew up watching Rajini movies. I remember watching Thalapathy when I was really young with my favourite late aunt and my mum. I guess I was only about 3 or 4 years old? Since I grew up in my grandma’s house for a while, I used to watch “Mannan” like a zillion times, that was because, it was her favourite movie. Besides Mannan, I watched Muthu, Arunachalam, etc in my grandma’s place. Another Rajini’s movie I watched several times, over 300-400 times was Padayappa. I remember, back then, it was recorded in the video cassette, I watched it almost everyday, over a year that I could remember every single dialogues in that movie. Me, not being a comedy fan, by far, that was the best comedy by him! However, that same year, I became Vijay’s fan after watching “Ninaithaen Vanthaay” and ever since he’s my favourite. I lose interest in watching Rajini’s movie after Lingaa though.
To be continued…..
Me : heyy I was the Thalapathy la (a leader)
My friend’s husband : You sure you are the Thalapathy and not Thalavali (headache)?? #facepalm
It all started with a random conversation during a wedding.
Looking back at the trip. Our travelling time seemed longer than the time we stayed there BUT it was one of the best trip I had in 2018.
So here’s how I became Thalapathy. I was the organiser for the trip. Which means, it started off with sorting out the dates till liaising with the driver. The communication with the driver was rather challenging. Well, obviously he was from my neighbourhood country, I had problems communicating with him in English. Worst still, I wasn’t that proficient in Malay too. I hated it when he me “sir” a couple of times! #facepalm. Apparently they started calling me “Thalapathy” when I was asleep in the car. And when I asked them why, they told me that my effort in communicating with the driver was commendable especially with my “broken Malay” ! Seriously girls ???
This trip was a fun filled trip with some relaxation as well as musical.
As I was answering questions from this blog site, I came across this intriguing question and thought of just blogging about it. If given a chance to change from your past, would you & why?
Yes indefinitely. As much as I don’t want to have any regrets, I mean who wants it right??? But that particular incident was a very regretful incident in my life.
As I was reading some comments and answers for this question, I envied some, especially when they grew from their unpleasant incident.
As for me, I was finding myself from growing apart from it.
This pain is way better than that pain …. Thou all I wanted was just to talk 😢
Definitely a good read. It allowed me to reflect too.
We are often told to act in alignment to what we feel. How we feel. For whom we feel. This notion of acting in alignment with our feelings can be a dangerous mindset.
In fact, allow me to tell you that your feelings are completley overrated. They are unimportant.
Look, there are only 2 reasons to do things in life.
Sometimes these two reasons align. We do something that feels good and we know is the right thing/a good thing to do. We do it, and you and everyone else is happy and we all live happily ever after.
But more often, they don’t align. Doing something that feels good is much easier than doing something that doesn’t feel good, but we know is the right thing to do.
Doing something that feels good is easy, but isn’t…
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Not sure if its her personality, her voice or the songs she sang… but she is one and only lady in entertainment industry, I would love to give a BIG TIGHT HUG and tonnes and tonnes of kisses to! ❤ ❤ ❤
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